1. Make Sure You Take Time To Build A Strong Dating Profile
DaBliss highly recommends that all DaBliss Paid Monthly Members always keep your contact information up to date and CURRENT with DaBliss.com. Have you seen the new commercial where the guy missed out on the deal of his part of 50 million dollars in a lottery because of a faulty battery? Well don’t make that yourself when we conduct our Sweepstakes Giveaways or Contests because you as a Paid Member did not keep your Contact Information current. DaBliss and our Sweepstakes Company affiliate will make every attempt to contact our selected Winners within the allowable time frame by law. If you are passed over as a selected potential Winner and you did not keep your contact information current, we are not at fault for your lack of participation. You will be passed over, and another person will be selected immediately. Believe me you do not want to receive a letter that says you lost out on a prize because of your lack of keeping your contact information current. Be active and always stay current with your contact information on DaBliss.
It can feel unnatural to analyze yourself and brake down your personality into bullet points when building your DaBliss Online Dating Profile. Many of us cringe at the thought of having to define our likes, dislikes and interests’ or hobbies on paper but the more information that you give about yourself, the clearer picture you paint for a potential person who comes across your profile. A vague or half-finished profile that you never finished looks bad to other members that view you. If you’re unsure what to say about yourself, there’s no shame in asking a friend or family member to help you write it.
2. So Important To Use Recent Photos In Your Profile
It might sound obvious but try to pick photos for your profile that are clear, honest and show you in your best light. That blurry photo with the bright flash? The one of you on holiday in sunglasses? Or your all-time favorite photo that was taken a good 10 years ago? Not a good idea. If you don’t have a decent number of recent photos in today’s age of technology, it might be worth speaking with a professional photographer about a photo shoot that specializes in dating photos.
3. Stay Safe Online
Every now and then, a horror story emerges about online dating. These range from people not looking like their profile pictures, to people turning out to be downright dangerous. It’s important you choose somewhere public for your first date, and as an extra precaution, make sure you let a friend or family member know you’re going on the date, and that you’ll contact them in however long if all goes well. As a rule, avoid people who instantly suggest you come over to their place, or who seem overly pushy to meet you before talking together in public first. Take time to get to know the person and don’t be in a rush. Remember you always have options. If the person gets too bad, please report them to us at Admin@DaBliss.com and we will investigate it as soon as possible. As we always say you have options, make sure you use them to your advantage.
4. Don’t Call, Text, Tweet or Become A Bother
You’ve met someone you like, that’s great. You’re probably thinking about them intermittently throughout your day and this is natural for you to want to let them know what you’re up to. It’s important to remember that it’s early in your new relationship and even if they’ve given you all the right signals so far, don’t push yourself onto a person to much or make several missed calls when you only spoke to them the night before. It might be too much, and give them cold feet and make them turn away from you, and BLOCK you, and even go as far as report you to Admin@DaBliss.com and that’s the worst thing that you want to happen because you will be closely observed by DaBliss Management and could even be banned from DaBliss. Think of your communication together as a balancing set of scales. Add only as much to your side, as they do to theirs.
5. Don’t Become A Facebook Stalker
I’m sure many of us can admit to knowing what someone does for a living, and even where they went on their last vacation, and the names of members of their family before we’ve even met them. Not because they’ve told us this information in a message, but because we’ve found their information on their open Facebook or Instagram profile, and you had a good look at it before your date together. But imagine the embarrassment if you let them know even the smallest of this information slip from all your hard detective work on your first date together? How could you explain to them that you seen what they did on their vacation without explaining to them that you found it on their Facebook page. If you do bring it up, then I highly recommend that you bring it up early in your conversations and get past it. Move on and have fun together.
6. Meet Somewhere You Feel Comfortable At In A Public Place
If your ideal first date is getting to know one another in a snug and small place, I don’t recommend it, instead meet at a coffee shop, or sandwich shop, in a public place around other people where you can take time to study the person and make sure that you feel comfortable about what you are doing. I “Do Not” recommend that you ever meet at a Hotel Room. Make them meet at least meet you at the nearby public establishment and take your time. Make sure you tell someone where you are going to be at, and make sure you have a way home. You can always call a Cab, Uber or Lyft. Remember you have options in your life and use them to your advantage.
7. Don’t Start Talking About Your Past Relationship Stories
Whether your last sweetheart destroyed your heart and you think you can never love again. Keep this information to yourself, believe me, it will be to your benefit in the long run. Your new date does not need to know. You are starting a fresh new relationship in life and let the experience make its own moves with the two of you together. Yes, it’s natural to be curious about who he or she was dating or even married to before you, but these conversations will happen organically in their own time. In short, try to avoid the ex-date chat when you’re on your first date. Have fun and get to know them and not think about the past, let the moment take control.
8. Pay For Your Date
Whether you’re born as a man or woman, you’re an independent adult that is now living in the 21st century, and over the age of 18 if you are a member of DaBliss. Regardless of whether you end up paying for your first date together, it’s polite for both parties to offer to buy a round of drinks or split the overall bill. But for me personally, as the man I am, I personally will always insist on paying all bills on my first date. For the men in this situation I recommend that you always bring flowers on your first date and take time to open the door for your date and be polite and listen to them 60 percent more than you speak to them. It’s a proven rule of basics that a man needs to listen more than they speak on any date. Do not push your date away before you get a chance to know them. Life takes time, patience is a virtue.
9. Remember You Have Time To Look Around
Please don’t think that you must go on a date with the first person who you like on DaBliss, just because you’ve been single for a while. With that same frame of mind, you should never feel pressured into going home with someone after a date for any reason or meeting up with them for a second date unless you’re positively sure you really want to. There are approximately over Ten Million residents of the United States and Canada that are currently using online dating sites, not to mention all the eligible singles that are dating offline. There’s really no need for anyone to settle for the first offer that you receive. Take your time to find the right relationship for you.
10. Don’t Get Carried Away
Be easy and try not to become over powering, unless you are a millionaire and you wish to sweep them off their feet, try not to make the new person you’re dating the center of your world. Many of us have had that special friend of ours that used to be so much fun, and who listened to all your problems, then suddenly started dating someone new and vanished into their world together. Don’t be that person. At the same time, don’t quit your hobbies for your new date. Keep doing what you normally do, keep growing that herb garden. Remember that having hobbies and interests is attractive to the person you’re dating. Your love of art and theater or your passion for long motorcycle rides or working together on your hotrod. Trust me most women love it, if you give them a chance, and are open minded to teach them. Everyone loves to learn new things in life, and as your new companion they want to be involved with what makes you happy, and likewise do the same for them as well. Relationships that are the most successful in life are shared together, don’t be a boss, be a lover, not a hater.
11. Have Fun With Your Online Dating Experience
This one might sound obvious, but if you’re not enjoying the online dating process for whatever reason, it’s not worth time. As a Dating Expert myself, I like to point out that many people get nowhere with online dating because they’re not in the right frame of mind for it.
“Get yourself together first, then look for a partner,” is our advice from DaBliss.
“Then you will be much more likely to find someone who’s going to be good for you.
Online dating sites may seem like a dime a dozen, but the best ones are worth more than a dime. However, that said, too many of the dating sites that people pay for end up being a waste of money. Either they connect you to a bunch of people you don’t have anything in common with, or they don’t connect you to a lot of people at all. We saw what other dating sites were doing, with the expressed idea of making sure that our site combined the best of everything. Here at DaBliss, we’ve tried to make the best of all worlds, so to speak. In this blog, we’ll go over what separates us from the other sites as well as what we can offer singles.
12. Beyond Online Dating Sites
One of the main goals of a dating site should be to connect people so that they talk beyond the site. Meeting someone on a dating site is great, talking to them through the site is great, but the end goal is not to keep talking through the site. You didn’t come to a dating site to find a penpal. That’s why we’ve geared everything in our site towards connecting people so that they would connect in the real world, too. We found that other dating sites tried to keep people on the site and talking. Here at DaBliss, we feel that after a certain point, if both parties are comfortable, it’s best if the conversation moves beyond our site.
13. A Pool of People for You
Ask anyone who’s been on dating sites long enough, and usually, the number one complaint is “I can’t find who I’m looking for on it.” We heard you. When we tried other dating sites, we ran into the same problem. That’s why at DaBliss we work towards making sure that we have as wide a range of potential dates to choose from. How many times have you clicked onto a dating site and the same profiles keep coming up, over and over again? That doesn’t happen on our site. We make sure that you have as many people to choose from when you go looking for someone.
14. All Kinds of Someone’s
Not everyone comes to an online dating site for the same reason. Many of our users are looking for a serious relationship. They want to find “the one,” the person they’re going to spend the rest of their lives with. However, that’s not why everyone uses a dating site. Many of our users are looking for a good time. They want to go out, have fun and find themselves and others. That said, so many of our users are somewhere in the middle between those groups. That’s why we’ve made sure that there are people on our site from all experiences and walks of life. You can find who you’re looking for here.
15. Find a Date Anywhere
One of the main advantages of online dating is convenience. You can potentially find someone to connect with while you’re waiting in line, on your lunch hour, etc. That’s why we’ve made it so that our site is easy to use. Too many other dating sites (especially free ones) don’t really put a lot of thought or care into their site or app. They want you to sign up, that’s it – they seemingly don’t care if you use the site or not. That doesn’t happen with DaBliss. We want you to be able to use our site to connect to the someone that you’re looking for.
So, our site is incredibly easy to use. It loads on laptops, desktops, tablets, phones and any other kind of device that you might be using. It’s mobile-optimized so that you can look for a potential date no matter where you are or what you’re doing. On top of that, we made it easy to browse and send messages, too. Seemingly everyone we talked to have that one dating horror story about how they sent someone a message through a site, and they didn’t get it or see it. That doesn’t happen to our site. We want to use our dating site to make talking to new people easier, not harder.
In the end, a dating site should open new possibilities. That’s why people come to a dating site: to meet people that they might not have met otherwise. Seeing happy couples that get together through our site is one of the most rewarding parts of the business. We want each of our users to share in that feeling, no matter what it is they’re looking for in a date. The right person for you is just a click away. All you must do is to go to DaBliss.com then Sign Up, complete and submit your profile with a recent photo of yourself.